Reflections: The Tale of
Success and Failure
As election fever grips India once again, the air is electric with
debates, promises, and predictions. Just a few months ago, the Lok Sabha
elections surprised everyone. BJP and its allies, the political parties that
seemed to be losing their ground suddenly found renewed confidence. They seemed
have done introspection and accepted failure as their Baby. On the other hand ,Congress
and its associates who improved their scores were quick to claim credit for the
success, each louder than the other. The media and analysts flooded us with
narratives of triumph, dissecting every detail of who contributed to the
victory. The narratives were fabricated to influence voters in favor of
winners.
Then came the assembly elections. Tables turned, fortunes shifted,
and those who were seen as losers just months ago became victorious. The cycle
began again—success claimed its many fathers, while failure quietly bore the
burden of blame.
This time, the Congress party, a grand old institution with over
125 years of history, found itself along with its associates struggling to
explain its setbacks. Apex leaders like Rahul Gandhi and Mallikarjun Kharge and
Udhav T were quick to deflect responsibility. They pointed fingers at
electronic voting machines (EVMs), local leadership, the victors—the BJP and
even former Chief Justice of India. Yet, what was missing was any reflection or
acknowledgment of moral or actual accountability.
It made me pause and reflect: is it true, as the old adage says,
that success has many fathers, and failure is an orphan?
This question reminds me of the journeys of some of the most
iconic figures of our time—Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam, Steve Jobs, and Jeff Bezos.
Their stories are testaments to the fact that failure is not the end but the
beginning of greatness.
Dr. Abdul Kalam is a perfect example of leadership that embraces
both failure and success with grace. During the development of India’s SLV-3
rocket in 1979, the mission failed. As the project leader, Dr. Kalam shielded
his team, taking full responsibility for the failure and personally facing the
media’s criticism. A year later, when the project succeeded, he did the
opposite—he asked his team to face the press and take credit for the success,
while he stayed behind the scenes. This powerful act of humility and
accountability made him a beloved leader and a timeless role model.
Similarly, Steve Jobs, ousted from the very company he founded,
could have allowed failure to define him. Instead, he used that time to
innovate, founding NeXT and Pixar, which eventually led to his triumphant
return to Apple. His failures taught him resilience and fueled his legendary
success in revolutionizing personal technology.
Jeff Bezos, the founder of Amazon, is known for his mantra: “Failure
and invention are inseparable twins.” Over the years, Amazon has
faced numerous failed ventures, from the Fire Phone to Amazon Auctions. But
Bezos embraced these failures as stepping stones to innovation, ultimately
transforming Amazon into a global powerhouse.
These leaders understood that failure is not a foe but a companion
to success—a theme echoed in the story The Tale of a Lonely Failure and
a Popular Success.
The Tale of a Lonely Failure
and a Popular Success
In the vibrant town of Belagavi in India, two spirits roamed the
streets: Failure and Success. They were like night and day—opposites that
shaped the world yet rarely met.
Failure was a quiet, brooding soul. People avoided him, often
crossing the street to escape his shadow. He wandered alone, carrying the
weight of disappointment and regret. Yet, he was not bitter. He found solace in
knowing he was a teacher, though his lessons were seldom appreciated.
Success, on the other hand, was the life of the party. Wherever he
went, people flocked to him, showering him with praise and adoration. He
thrived in the spotlight, basking in the glory of achievement. But deep down,
Success knew that his charm owed much to Failure’s quiet wisdom.
One evening, as the sun set over Belagavi, Failure sat alone under
a banyan tree. Success, passing by, paused and approached him.
“Why do you look so sorrowful, my friend?” asked Success.
Failure smiled faintly. “Because no one wishes to know me. They
see me as a curse, an unwanted guest. But I am only here to guide them, to show
them the way to you.”
Success nodded thoughtfully. “It is true. Without you, I would not
exist. Every achievement is built upon the lessons you provide. Yet people
forget this truth in their haste to embrace me.”
Failure looked up at Success, his eyes brimming with quiet pride.
“Perhaps that is my purpose—to be forgotten, so that you may shine.”
The two spirits sat together, their contrasting energies merging
in the twilight. In that moment, they were no longer opposites but two
sides of the same coin.
This story is a reminder, especially in times of shifting
political victories and defeats, to embrace failure as much as we celebrate
success.
Dr. Kalam, Steve Jobs, Jeff Bezos, and countless others remind us
that in every success lies a foundation of failure—a quiet teacher often
overlooked but never irrelevant. As India navigates its political landscape,
parties and leaders too must reflect on the lessons of failure instead of
casting blame. It is only through accountability, resilience, and learning from
missteps that true progress can be achieved.
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Dr. Arun Kulkarni
29.11.2024

